Gallery: HOW TO: Fly Cross-Country Wit...
It's a dilemma that faces every parent of young kids at some point - flying! This quandary is especially problematic for Waldorf-inclined parents (like myself) who are hesitant to try to pacify their tykes with medications or DVDs. How does one get a constantly moving kid to sit still for six hours in an airplane without the use of Benadryl or its TV equivalent Dora the Explorer? Anxiously preparing to fly from NY to CA this summer with my always-in-motion 3-year-old boy and no antihistamines, I decided to ask fellow parents and Inhabitots readers for their words of wisdom. I got a lot of great advice and tested out some of my favorite suggestions on my son during my latest cross-country trip to California. The verdict? Read below to discover my most highly recommended non-pharmaceutical engagement and diversion tactics for your next cross-country journey with a child.
I think some of these tips could work on my boyfriend as well.
Smart ideas, especially taking photos and looking at pics. Kids love that!
LOL Yuka. I think the key point for any age is to pack snacks galore! I’ll be using the surprise gifts tip too! Thanks!
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Great for reducing the likelihood of meltdowns from the strange new sounds encountered during travel.
We’ve passed many a 1/2 hour playing “I spy with my little eye.”
other ideas for toddlers that help esp during takeoff & landing when you can’t use electronic devices:
in a ziploc-sized reusable bag, have crayons/markers (clementine), small writing pad (ecojot), a half dozen lego blocks, a travel-sized container with two q-tips for him/her to pull out & put in (discovered this by accident–more environmental option probably could be imagined), 1-2 small toys (we have a tiny wind-up train that i had as a child and a plan toy bus), and stickers (we use free ones sent in mail solicitations that would be trash anyway). only pull out this bag at takeoff and landing–otherwise, the novelty wears off.
Small children do not belong on planes. Period. There is no way to guarantee that they will not disturb dozens of people who paid full fare for a peaceful flight and they do not need the disruption of a child to ruin their trip. Leave the kid at home or wait until it’s old enough to be considerate. Selfish parent. Selfish child.
Nice tips! I made many long plane trips with my children. Fourteen hours! Two games only needing pencil and paper are “Sprouts” and “Boxes”. Surprise gifts were timed to landmarks or an actual event. Also, I had unplanned gifts too. Changing outfits takes up some time. Backscratching, my kids liked tickles. Drawing a story they tell you. When mine were young I could cut out paper dolls. With newsprint paper you can tear out paper dolls and animals. Tapping out name that tune like Jingle Bells. Cleaning out moms purse was always a hit. My two liked to be read to into their early teens. We read The Hobbit to Australia and Jurassic Park home. My daughter later carried her Red Cross babysitter certificate to show and carried many a cranky kid up and down the aisles. Anyway anybody can think to make that time pass!
There’s nothing selfish about taking my 16 month old to Australia to see half of this family that he’s never seen before, especially a grandmother that has failing health. We need more patience and understanding in the world.