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Cons of DIY Births
- Birth is safer than women in the U.S. are led to believe, but when labor and birth complications happen, they can happen very fast. I had a healthy pregnancy, right up until the end. I even wanted a home birth. I didn’t get one though. I had complications that no one saw coming. I ended up in the hospital and my midwife had to hand me over to a doctor. Had I not given birth in a hospital it would have been unsafe for both my son and me. The experience did not change my birth perspectives. I still feel birth is ultimately safe, and given the choice I’d plan a natural home birth with a midwife if I was pregnant again. But, you can’t deny that complications do occur.
- You need to be healthy. Only women with uncomplicated, healthy pregnancies should attempt a DIY birth. This means you need to take extra special care during your pregnancy to eat well, exercise, get plenty of rest and avoid harmful substances. This isn’t really a con, as all women should try to have a healthy pregnancy, but if you’re planning a DIY birth, it can take time and planning to be extra vigilant.
- You’ll need to be prepared. You and your partner will need to research labor, birth and common complications so you’re prepared. This can be a big undertaking. Having a copy of The Birth Partner on hand can’t hurt.
- You need a back-up plan. Of course, you should always get prenatal care, but just in case, it’s wise to speak with a midwife or doctor about your unassisted birth plan. Not that you’ll get a green light, but honesty may help you avoid dangerous problems. Secondly, be sure you’ve got the nearest hospital’s number on speed dial. In case of an emergency, you may need to call.
- Women who attempt DIY births are very likely to hear opposition from family, friend, health care providers and even at times, partners. You’ll have to deal with it, or keep quiet about your choice.
Would I have a DIY birth? Nope. If pregnant again, I’d want a midwife and a doula by my side. I’m a pain wuss and like support. Also, I know my own body and limits. Having had complications last time, I’d err on the side of a well-planned, but cautious home birth. My second choice would be a birth center. What about you? Would you like to have a DIY birth? Let us know in the comments.
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