5. Prolonged engorgement is not normal
If it happens to you, pump as soon as you can, to get the milk out.
I did not know this. My books said that engorgement was to be expected, so when I was engorged for a week, I just thought this was par for the course. I learned later that engorgement tells your body to stop making milk. After the first week my milk supply dropped off dramatically and it took me about 6 months (and medicine) to build it back up again. Don’t go through what I went through – if you are engorged for more than a few hours, pump that milk! It will help your milk production, and you’ll have backup milk to feed to your baby later.
I hope these tips help ease you and your baby into a wonderful, rewarding breastfeeding experience. No matter how rocky your start may be, with the right support and information, you can truly become an expert in your own right on the art of breastfeeding.
Great article but I disagree with the nipple confusion. Certainly there are some babies out there that will get confused but all three of mine had a pacifier within the first two weeks and did just fine. They wanted to suck constantly even though they were feeding, peeing/pooping and gaining weight as expected. I felt very guilty doing this with my first child but gained confidence as a mother with the second and third and knew it was the okay thing to do. I also had to offer a bottle with each child within the first few weeks as I had sores and bleeding at start of breastfeeding. This allowed one breast to heal and they all went back to the breast just fine. My first two nursed over a year and my third is heading down the same path! Luckily, my husband grew up in a family of breastfeeders and was my main support system. Without him I’m not sure what I would have done!
Again, I’m sure there are babies that do get confused but my point is that mothers should not feel guilty or stressed if they firmly a believe a pacifier or bottle is needed earlier then expected. And again, pacifiers are known to help against SIDS.
I had a horrible lactation consultant with my first child. I felt like I was doing everything wrong. She was forcing my son onto my breast. He was wailing his head off but she refused to let up. We were exhausted by her strict regiment. I was engorged, too, and got an infection. I finally had enough after 3 weeks and gave up.
For my 2nd child I found a great LC before the birth, went to a few La Leche meetings, and just tried to watch other moms breastfeeding at the playground. We were well prepared and determined to make it work.
You really need to take the time to prepare and inform yourself and your partner and have a small group of supportive people around you.
This article is so helpful. Women need to share experiences. Prepare for breast feeding prior to giving birth. You deliver the baby once with a team of medical experts. Breast feeding happens multiple times a day, and it’s just you and the baby. I had my husband come to a class with me so he could help when we got home if I encountered trouble. One of the mistakes I made is not keep enough milk as a back up. Now the baby is in daycare I’m trying to increase my supply to feed the baby and increase my supply. It also helps if you get sick to have backup. I took sinus medication once and I went from producing a TON to none in a matter of hours. It took a few days for it to come back. And that’s just one dose of sinus medication.
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