A few weeks ago our refrigerator went temporarily and inexplicably on the brink, upending our afternoon plans as we made a mad dash to cook or save all the goods in our fridge. The next day, with the fridge fixed, my son and I gathered our
reusable grocery bags and headed out to the car for our twice monthly trip to Whole Foods to pick up essentials like his favorite hemp milk and cereal. Elijah was chattering away in the backseat when I realized, heart sinking, that the car’s battery was dead. For Elijah, this disruption was akin to learning someone was going to take away his favorite toy, and a meltdown turned him from a happy little guy into a tear-streaked mess who refused to get out of his car seat, despite the summer heat. Less than an hour later, after having had the car jumped, we were in Whole Foods, giggling and chomping away on summer’s sweet blueberries. This crazy swing of events got me thinking: When was the last time I appreciated the fact that my car generally started and ran? Or was thankful that I had a refrigerator so that I could have cold water on one of these increasingly frequent sweltering
summer days? It seems like it’s only when something goes wrong that I appreciate that it ever went right. This, of course, got me thinking more: How can I teach my child to appreciate things as they happen and to show them they can learn from both the good
and the bad?
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